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Anytime, anywhere ... sort of.

All you need is a bit of privacy and comfortable surroundings.

Find a comfortable spot where you both can stretch out and have some fun.
We like to keep things simple—usually on the floor, with nothing in the way.
Clear the space around you, lock up your pets, and make sure there’s room to move and groove.


Now, sit across from each other and lay the cards out between you. 
First, hand out one of each Who card to both of you. These will decide who’s taking charge of what—keep them close, but don’t use them just yet.

Next, shuffle the Body cards and place them face down in the center.

The Action cards come in three phases. Phase by phase, add two Twist cards at random to each deck and give them a good shuffle!

Finally, stack the three Action decks together: place Suddenly Wonderful on the bottom and Break the Ice on the top. You’re all set to play and explore.

Press Play

#1 Grab the top five Action cards and place them face down between you.
One by one, flip them over together to see what’s underneath!


#2 Now, in secret and for each of the five actions, decide who you’d like to take charge. Will you pass it to your playmate (You)? Take it on yourself (Me)? Absolutely insist they do it (You You)? Or are you dying to do it yourself (Me Me)? Don’t forget—putting down your
Skip card is a must! Choose wisely, as the suspense is all part of the fun. Place your Who cards face down underneath each action, keeping your choices hidden.


#3 One by one, flip over your
Who cards to see what your playmate wants.
If you agree—any combination of You and Me—or one trumps the other—You You vs. You or Me Me vs. Me—jump into action right away, moving on to the next
Action card when you’re done. 

If it’s a tie—You vs. You or Me vs. Me—leave the Action card put to vote on again next round. If a Skip card is revealed, remove the Action card from the game without playing it. You might skip one or two actions per round, but trust us—the more you play, the more your skips will start to sync up!

#4 After you have gone through all five Action cards, remove the ones you played out, leaving only the “ties” in the game for the next round. Take your Who cards back into your hand, shuffle the Body cards back into their deck, and refill the five Action slots with new cards, face down to begin the next round. 
 

 

There’s a Twist

Twist cards do exactly what you'd expect—they add a twist to the game! When one of these enters play, flip it over and follow the instructions immediately—no votes, no delays, just instant action. Remove the card from the game afterwards. 


Game on… or off

Flip and repeat until you’ve played through the entire deck of Action cards, or until you get carried away and both give in to your own rhythm. There’s no winner here—just a whole lot of fun exploring each other!

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Break the ice and explore each others’ likes. 

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